The ghost that came back.
So... My ghost came back. Well, I went searching for him because I had to find some closure. No one should ghost a person without giving them a reason. So I went searching for the reason, and he gave it to me. And the story goes like this. A week before he ghosted he was not really consistent with his communication. He would go to bed without saying goodnight and when I called him my phone calls would go to voicemail. He would wake up the following morning and text me like everything is alright. I picked up on this behaviour change and decided to tell him. I must say, I was a little harsh with the way I addressed the issue but I was frustrated and told him that "he can do better". These words were enough for him to disappear or "remove himself from the situation" as he puts it. According to him, he was doing his best to be consistent with his communication even though he is a busy person. I mean, I am also a busy person, but then I know that I should prioritise ch